Marlyn Mark Dey

Marlyn Mark Dey, born August 24, 1955, was lovingly called to his heavenly home on January 31, 2026, surrounded by his family after bravely facing a brief battle with lung cancer. The first son of Robert and Della Dey, Marlyn experienced heartbreak when he lost his father just two days before Christmas in 1965. In 1970, Eugene Rusch-affectionately known as Father Rusch-joined the family, becoming a steadfast guide and remarkable influence until his passing in 2000. As the second oldest of six siblings, Marlyn grew up on a dairy farm near Shiocton and Black Creek, where his childhood was filled with laughter, adventure, and playful mischief.

Marlyn's early years were a vibrant tapestry of experiences-picking pickles, learning the accordion, taking chickens to the fair, and creating arts and woodworking projects for 4-H. He found joy in 4-H activities, played high school basketball and 4-H basketball, and landed a role in the musical "Bye Bye Birdie," which sparked his lifelong love of music, especially the guitar. Driven by curiosity and determination, Marlyn taught himself to play guitar, ultimately becoming a local legend who shared his musical gift for more than five decades. He graduated from Seymour High School in 1974.

On May 21, 1977, Marlyn married Miranda "Randi" Conlon, his beloved soulmate, on a warm and memorable May day. Their wedding was celebrated at the former Diemel's Resort, where family and friends enjoyed laughter, dancing, and-much to everyone's amusement-an abundance of mosquitoes.

A dedicated member of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA), Marlyn maintained his sobriety for more than 43 years. He approached recovery with commitment and compassion, often sharing his experiences to help others make better choices.

Throughout his career, Marlyn held various positions before pursuing further education in the 1990s. He earned an electronics degree from FVTC, which enabled him to serve as a computer technician for Compaq/HP, managing onsite contracts at Kimberly Clark. Marlyn later joined Service Express, providing technical support across the Midwest.

Despite a busy work life, Marlyn devoted weekends to his passion for music, playing in at least 15 bands over the years. With large hands and a keen musical ear, he could hear a tune once and quickly master the riff.

Marlyn's 70 years were filled with meaningful connections and joyful pursuits. He loved fishing and never missed a chance to go. He attended concerts, joined jam sessions, and especially treasured his time at Island Music in New London, WI, chatting with fellow musicians. Devoted to Immanuel Lutheran Church of Cicero, Marlyn served on the church council, building and grounds committee, IT committee, and helped found the Chantez music group. His faith and service were central throughout his life, including his role as constable for the Town of Maine.

Marlyn will always be remembered for his endearing quirks-his ever-present long johns (even in the heat of summer), tossing his hat at the TV during Packers games, and his extraordinary talent on the guitar. His spirit for adventure led him to explore every secret fishing spot along the Wolf River. His neat handwriting reflected his thoughtful character, and he found joy feeding birds, eagerly awaiting spring bluebirds. Marlyn and Randi lovingly raised golden retriever puppies, creating a home full of warmth and laughter. Whether planting new trees on the "Dey Plantation," taking a nap, or making sure towels were warm for his beloved cats, Leo and Bowser, Marlyn's love and care were evident in all he did. He enjoyed a good fish fry, strong coffee, and the sweet delight of chocolate-especially Mallo Cups. He always kept a never-ending to-do list close at hand. Above all, Marlyn found his greatest joy sharing fishing and music with his grandchildren, showering them with boundless love and warm hugs. He cherished time outdoors, nurturing trees and mowing the beloved "Dey Plantation" and "Roost," and enjoyed plowing with his tractor, SnowBell. Marlyn's legacy is one of warmth, laughter, and lasting affection for all who knew him.

Marlyn is survived by his wife of 48 years, Miranda; their children, Bobbi (Casey) Wyss and Michael (Carey) Dey; grandchildren, Grayson, Brynnlee, Carter, Gavin, and MaKayla; siblings, Julie Dey, Jayne (Jerry) Zuleger, Richard (Georgia) Dey, Willis (Wendy) Dey, and David (Martha) Dey; and extended family Karen (Harold) Klegin, Daniel (Carla) Conlon, Kenneth Conlon (Christy Young) and numerous nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Robert Dey, Della and Eugene Rusch, along with Richard and Vera Conlon, Ronald and Joan Hansen, Chris Conlon, Joe and Chipper Wys, Dennis Christopherson and Simon "Butch" Dietenberger.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Beckett and ThedaCare Hospice for their outstanding care and support to Marlyn.

Services for Marlyn will be held at Immanuel Lutheran of Cicero, N9580 County Road X, Black Creek, WI. Visitation will take place Friday, February 27 from 5-7 PM and Saturday, February 28 from 9 AM to noon, with the funeral service at 12 Noon with Pastor Bill Schroeder officiating. To honor Marlyn, the family kindly requests attendees wear blue, his favorite color.

"Take it home, Marlyn!"